My boyfriend and I have a pretty open sex life. We have been attempting anal and other forms of sex but I have noticed compared to my other partners I've had that I am not as into it as I can be. Idk what is playing a factor but it is making me feel away and he feels likes he is bored. He also told me my pussy was loose which made me feel insecure about my lady part and he just feels like I lay there. I don't know where to start on improving because I just feel like I don't want to even bother with sex with him anymore. How might I go about improving my performance and willingness to perform during sex? has anyone had this problem?